Hello ladies, let’s chat shall you ever been in that situation where you found a man attractive but didn’t have feelings for him as of yet? Well I have and when he admitted how he felt I wasn’t in to him like that or to put it better I wasn’t ready for him.
Its a strange situation as he was good looking, great personality and forever making me laugh with his sense of humour and what I love to call him being gassed you know when you give them a compliment and they take it to the extreme lol. Slow down brotha I can take it back just as swiftly.
Its easy to say that it’s sexual chemistry but how do you know unless you make things clear? You can org with them and that’s completely acceptable but either draw a line not to be crossed or you step yourself over that line and put less distance between you two. If that’s what you’re looking for of course if not then keep back.
Also if a guy says he has feelings for you and then say he chooses to go and be with someone else it’s understandable we can be jealous selfish individuals who expect someone to wait while we articulate our feelings. Life doesn’t work that way we need to wake up and smell the roses and realise that people do move on and it’s ok but if they return to you eventually it could be a blessing in disguise or you may get a surprise……
You ever heard the expression living a dream well it’s time you wake up, wake up and smell the roses what do you truly want and I don’t mean putting a man in the friend zone I mean do you want him or not? Letting him go and spread his wings and if you do want him hold on to him tightly and reassure him that you want him wholeheartedly…..
Cocoa rose 2016 (c) ❤️💛💚🌹